Hmmm

Here’s a thought….

If I have an amnesiac girl character who is raised predominantly around boys/men throughout their childhood, is treated as a boy and is never given any other indication to believe that they’re different from the boys around them (either because they’ve never lived around girls long enough to figure out there is a difference and/or they don’t remember that they are a girl because amnesia) so they consider themselves to be a boy

and then later on when they do figure out that they’re female and not actually male, and everyone’s saying “oh you’re a female so therefore you’re a girl, here have this fan instead of the sword that you’ve trained with all your life”, and the amnesiac character is all “nah, I’m still a boy”

would that be offensive to trans individuals or kind of like subverting the whole “girl dresses up as a boy for temporary plot purposes but still likes girly things and isn’t actually trans” trope?