whitebear-ofthe-watertribe:

the-regeneratin-degenerate:

systlin:

perkigothii-geekius:

systlin:

ejacutastic:

legitimately it’s such a weird and sketchy practice that people at bachelor/ette parties have strippers or encourage the bride/groom to do sexual stuff with other people like before they get married to someone they love and just straight people are weird

My husband and his friends just got together at our house and played Guitar Hero and drank beer and they all congratulated him. I think he got drunk and invented Sword Golf that night. When I got home from work they all said “Hi! We got your man drunk! Take a guitar we’re doing “Through the fire and flames” and we need someone with good finger dexterity on guitar, his got wrecked by the tequila shots.“

And honestly that is the kind of bachelor party I can get behind.

okay that is cute as fuck. I’m sort of afraid to know what Sword Golf is but I’m also massively curious.

It’s where you hit golf balls into the corn field but you use swords instead of golf clubs.

#my plan for a friend’s bachelor party #want mine like this

At my best friend’s bachelorette party we did a Wine and Paint night, and then went to the grocery store to get sparkling cider, cheese and cracker platters, and copious amounts of French bread before heading over to one of the bridesmaids houses to marathon some Disney movies.

At my sister’s party, we went rock climbing and then out to a fancy dinner, which then turned into a night of live music and dancing before going to drink mimosas in the nearby hot springs and relax. Her fiancé and his friends used their party time to go rafting and camp on the river for a night, playing music and just hanging out.

Another best friend just wanted to do a spa day at home, so we ordered take out and all did face masks and foot scrubs and mani pedis. Her fiancé and his friends went to the nearby theme park, but when they got done and came home early, all they guys joined in on the spa activities too. This resulted in everyone doing impromptu karaoke wearing green clay masks, some of us decided to bake cookies for some reason, and we stayed piled in the living room with blankets and pillows, watching Avatar: The Last Airbender till 4am

Destroy the idea that Bach parties have to be any specific type of activity. It’s a time for you to hang out with your best friends and do whatever the hell makes you happy.